NY SEEMED SO OVER JOYED AND PICKED TANGO VS. CHANCE. KNOW YOU KNOW THAT THIS B*TCH HAD TO HAVE HAD SEX WITH TANGO AND GOD KNOWS SHE PICKED THE BETTER CONTENDER, SO ALL OF THAT DISSING OVER HOW BIG HIS PACKAGE WAS FROM NY WAS A FRONT BE CAUSE HER SORRY BLACK ASS GOT DUMPED A 3RD TIME. WHEN YOU HAVE AN ADDITUDE THAT BAD NO NOBODY WANTS YOU. KEEP IT PUSHING

You know what, Tango is a damn punk. He's ugly and his ex girlfriend he had on the show was butt ugly. He probably still a virgin. She wasn't dissin his mother. All she said was that she was a big woman. He already knew how out spoken new york was. He's a B@#$H... I wouldn't have chose him. He waisted her time if anything. And he didn't have to diss her like that in front of millions of people. His mother didn't raise him right at all.. God is looking down on him cuz he proposed to hurt her. Not out of love.

As much as I "thought" Tango was a good choice, the extent of his cruelty and maliciousness is unbelievable! I mean, seriously, he may have been mad about the comments about his mother, but did he have to do this on TV? I would have thought him more of a gentleman had he taken the high road and been discrete - Even more sick is how much he pretended to still be into her for 10 minutes before he went on a rant. If he DOES INDEED have a "girlfriend" he is even more SICK. However, to be honest, all of those men had an ulterior motive. Her best bets probably would have been Mr. Boston or Romance, one seemingly having nothing to gain and the other a complete nut. However, REAL could have been another choice, but it is hard to say how much he was pumping his career. Oh well - real women can't find men on TV. Hopefully, NY knows this now... or maybe it was all cleverly scripted to begin with! It could be possible that Tango was hurt and needed to hurt her - I agree that NY was probably not the best choice for her, but the lies worked against him in the end.

I have to agree that she should have no talked about Tango's mother like that. She knew eventually he would see that. It was not long that someone else talked about her mom and she didn't like it. She made a good choice on picking Tango but she need to learn form her mistakes. That attitude is not going help her catch the right person. She just seemed like she was not so interest in Tango anyway. It was like she still wanted Chance and to tell you the truth she should have picked Real. I think Real would have been a good man for her. Just remember that if you want that special person in your life do not talk about his family or be disrepectful toward the man in any kind of way. Keep on going in this direction and you will be old and alone. No man is gonna put up with attitude or being disrepected in any type of way.

tango forgive ny she's not mature but i believe she does care about you in every way. she is capable of love. you have to stick with a person through thick and thin. i am sure she regrete that she said that about your mother.tango you are a beautiful person you should of handle that situation on private.ny shared everything with you (sharing)and caring should make a difference

Tango, your'e a class act , very patient, kind & understanding, and im glad you came to your'e senses. Pray for New York...Hollywood has gotta hold of her she's gonna need a real and true friend. NY got a serious wake up call, as she will see ..Hollywood will use u and spit you out! Praying for both of you.

WOW!!!! That was an unbelievable ending to the show. I have mixed feelings and I'm going to tell you why. First off even if those were her true feeling about his mother she should have choose not to express them knowing at some point they was going to be aired and seen by both him and his mother. Secondly she should have thought back to how she felt and reacted to Onyx's comment about her mother's actions in church. You can't expect to say and or do any thing to people and not expect them to say and or do any thing back to you. Hopefully Tango can remain true to what he presented on camera to whom ever else he's dating. It is a love lost on NY's part. If she keeps looking at people's pockets she's going to lose every time. If she keep opening her legs to everybody that's whispering sweet nothings in her ear then she's going to lose every time. and last but not least I think NY is a beautiful girl with ugly ways and if she can adjust her ways she may be able to attract someone that will love her and stay with her. She have to be willing to change for herself and not the other person or it won't work

Newyork is a phoney, fake hair, nails, breasts and lashes.Tango saw through all of that.

Thinking this through logically, I can only conclude that all this was planned, including Tango's dumping NY. Why? The show is filmed 24/7 while the guys are at the house. When the competition ends, producers & editors go over 100s of hours of footage and from that put together a story line consisting of say, 20 hours of film. If NY had truly been head-over heels in love, she would have told the producers not to televise her remarks about her fiancee's mother. In fact, I'm sure they asked whether she wanted those comments televised given her engagement status. It takes months to edit that film, which is why the two of them can't see each other so the conclusion isn't given away. NY televised the remarks because either she knew that Tango wasn't for real about her or because she was not for real about him from the start. I believe Tango really liked her and proposed--but something went down between the end of filming and the reunion. She knew what was coming on that reunion show (watch it again)--she knew Tango was with someone else, wasn't into her.

The amazing thing is, ppl actually BELIEVE they were ever together.....LOL. Did you see her face? his? they were doing their best to keep a straight face during their "argument/dumping" Check her crying? no tears..for real I believed the one where Flav picked that huge-butt deelishis, over NY, NY was really crying then. If she had "real" love for Tango, she would have been wearing that engagement ring, but as many photos prove, she hadn't had it on since that night and a source at the giantto(where Tango got the ring) said the ring was just on "loan" meaning it had to be returned within 48 hours. So either Mr Tan Man(turtle) hadn't the cash(he claims he has) or it was all fake fake fakety fake. You decide

Hmmm, well first, the song was ehh as best. I guess you could at least say it rhymed. Anyway i cant believe people are tryin to get behind New York, which is probably the single saddest thing that has infatuated our society. DOes anyone realize that you are watching literally: a spin off, of a spin off, of a spin off, of a spin off. Surreal life, then Brigitte Nielsen & Flav Show, then Flava of Love, then Flava of Love 2, and then finally the ultimate show for every TOOL in our country who would rather watch white/black/latino trash. Sadly, I too caught myself watching this mockary of a show, but only b/c cable programming is riduclous and nothing else is on during my lunch break around 1230 or so. Anyway, if us (consumers, viewers) would all get together and not watch stupid pointless shows that make stars of people so trashy, that otherwise would never be let within the security of the studios in which they shoot. I mean the only reason its doin so well is shock value. PEOPLE, DONT THINK FOR ONE MINUTE THAT THIS IS SO CALLED "REALITY TV". THIS SHOW, ALONG WITH MANY OTHER SO CALLED "REALITY" SHOWS, HAVE SCRIPTS, THAT ARE FOLLOWED FAIRLY PRECISELY. Take the reunion for example. They set up the last episode of I LOVE NY, for NY to dump chance and get Tango, dumping the stereotypical funny witty small black guy.....for the stereotypical dumb, serious, ninja-turtle looking black guy. The last episode involves Tango proposing (VERY OUT OF PLACE, I MEAN HE HAD MET NY 3 WEEKS BEFORE?) Mysteriously, as the time came to confront NY in front of a large crowd, all his friends and family, his fellow contestants, and his dear MOMMY, he runs away from NY screaming about how she had dissed his "biggun" of a mom he seems to be infatuated with more than his dates. NY states "I shouldve picked Chance", which Im pretty sure anyone with a brain noticed he was the only person who was able to calm NY's A.D.D. butt down. Anyway Im sad i watched it, and I feel like a worse person for having watched it. I hope we (Americans) can get our heads on straight and try to watch, and do things more intelligent and try to expand our minds once in awhile, if notevery day, and try to get our FAT BUTTS OFF THE COUCH and STOP WATCHING MIND-NUMBING SHOWS SUCH AS I LOVE NY, OR CHARM SCHOOL--Oh by the way for those of you who dont know, thats a show on VH1 involving ex-contestants from Flava of Love, were as much or even more skanky than NY, who somehow were given a crew with cameras to highlight, and emabarrass them for truly how ugly, skanky, backstabbing, and obnoxious. Well skank-nasties, this is your 15 minutes of fame, so live it up!!! Everyone else that has a brain cell or two left, lets do somethig with our lives that could change the future for the better, rather than degrading our society even further than we have allowed it to slip already...i.e. -George W. Bush, how in the world do we elect this fool TWICE! Its almost as if we ask for the worst possible outcomes of nearly every situation, and we wonder why people are constantly talking about an "end of days". Maybe we should think about what people are truly about when we vote for them, rather than having the WRONG assumption that presidential candidtates will fulfill some "Magical Dream" we have in one specific area of debate, WHILE THAT SAME CANDIDATE MIGHT COMPLETE CONTRADICT ANOTHER ONE OF OUR VIEWS. People!!!!! They tell you lies to get you to vote for them, and once their in, people like GWB let atrocity after atrocity happen while all we do is get scared (mainly by slanted media, such as the Anthrax scares, that just so happened to only happen for a few weeks after 9/11?) and as we are scared like in '01, we allow so called "leaders" to manipulate us into thinking whatever they want....Hmm could this be them telling us their were Weapons of Mass Destruction, yet NOT ONE HAS BEEN FOUND OR DISPOSED OF, AND WE ARE STILL OCCUPYING IRAQ. Surely it couldnt be b/c of the new oil pipeline running through Iraq that was just recently completed. Surely it had nothing to do with the secret meetings around '00 of the "secret leaders" of the country, that practiced, debated, outlined, and tested ideas for an attack on the U.S., that included the threat of planes attacking either the White House, Pentagon, and/or large buildings in big cities. Anyway I will end it here, b/c some will agree, some wont, and I may not change any minds, but please, if not for me, then for the benefit of our country's values, research more on what really happened on 9/11, not just what we are force fed through the big business, conglomorate, media corporations (i.e. Fox, MSNBC, etc, ) Most people dont realize the awful truth of what really happened, you dont have to change your mind, just watch and then decide for yourself. Go to Google Video, or YouTube.com, and type in Loose Change.....or Loose Change 2nd. edition. Thanks you very much for reading this and I hope this country can recover from horrible mistakes we have made. Peace yall

I liked Tiffany as a person but she has no respect and consideration for others. People please, now you know that she was wrong for the things she called Tango and for talking about his mother. Tiffany's Mom was wrong for participating in the negative conversations about Tango's Mom. Tang was right for dumping Tiffany on television. She deceived him on television. She was the first one to call him a turtle (turtles do live longer than humans). Tiffany was TOTALLY wrong. She owes Tango and his mother an apology.

Well people all I have to say is pray for New York, Tango, and all the people who were involved in this disgraceful and distasteful show. I believe that when we see hurt people hurt others, it is a sign for serious help. This is happening all over the nation and the real key is God. True love first was created from above and the truth has been shown here. If you don't have true love first in your heart, you can not give it to someone else. Peace.

THAT GOES TO SHOW YOU... KEEP YOUR WORDS SOFT..YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOU WILL HAVE TO EAT THEM...

Tango, please do not enter another reality show with new york. You deserve your own reality show. New york has had 3 chances and failed because of her deceitfullness, whore tendencies and pyschotic behavior. I am so proud of you for dumping her. She definitley disrespected you in every way with her comments. I would love for my daughter to meet a guy like you. (hey, btw she is single LOL) New york is not looking for love, she is looking for DICK that she can control. The only mistake that i saw on your part was asking her to marry you. New york only needs to do porn show. There are people out there that would really take advantage of her. But then maybe that's what she is looking for. Keep your head up. May you be blessed in all desires.

i just watched the reunion show for a second time, and i do feel sorry for new york. i think most of those men were immature children except for a couple. with youre mother going to church you shouldnt cuss like that, and should respect yourself more by not kissing and making out with them. it was obvious what youn were doing behind closed doors. I have been there and you will not find a real man until you act like a grown up. tango what you did on tv was wrong and you were just as much of a fake as the rest of the guys in the house, what she said about your'e mama was wrong but a lot of mother-in-laws and daughter-in-laws talk down about one another. Heck she screamed at you and you took it, if this show was even real it should of been done privately of the breaking up. maybe you both will find love soon. who knows maybe new york could find love at church next time and cut out the filth talk.

I think New York got exactly what she deserved. It's a miracle that no one caught MONO in that house. She was a str8 up whore. Tango theres no way you could have turned that whore into a house wife. New York and chance are made for each other they both have a lot of growing up to do. Big Ups to Tango you showed AMERICA that you are a GUTTA brither

tango we must forgive one another ny spoke harsh words. she loves you i believe that, tango if you did have a girlfriend from the beggining you decieve ny if thats the case. put all the madness aside love tiffany for who she is. all this wanting to fight stop stop it love peace is what it is all about .you have a beautiful mother ny didnt know how to deal with such a respectful woman.that made tiffany afraid of having something real. tango ny didnt love chance it was always you i could tell, tango you came on so strong to her telling her you loved her those are serious words. we need to be true and honest. after all this tv there is real life emotions.heartache is heavy. tango i hope you read this comment

A final thought: I'm feeling "whogonna." She/he is completely right about Americans needing to spend more time thinking about real issues: there is a war, we have the village idiot as a president, we are making bad environmental decisions.... I feel you and I understand what is going on. However, as an active participant in the voting and petitioning process (to get some of these things corrected), I can say that just because I am watching reality TV does not necessarily correlate to me (or others) not caring or doing anything in the world. I do, however, believe a lot of Americans could do more. ALSO, I would like to clarify my earlier comment but saying that I never felt NY was in the right for what she did to Tango on national TV, but he knew her bahavior from Flavor of Love and earlier things she did to him. If he truly cared about her and as he said in an interview "talked with her" and "forgave her for the comments she said about his mother, " then this was deceptive. NY runs her mouth, she is rude, she's is a golddigger, I don't believe in her values, but there is a code of honor here. He presented himself as mature and humble so I would have liked to see him mature and humble. My main anger with him was how he pretended for the first 5 minutes then went off on this rant... However, let's get real again... it's just a show and probably scripted. I never feign to think this is all real, but like with any scripted show, I still like to talk about it and be emotional about it. Isn't that why we watch tv? To be entertained... to have fun? I know I get sick of studying for 4 hours a night and I love watching TV to laugh at the madness... My 2 cents

I think Tiffany Pollard needs to grow up. She will never find a good man acting the way she does. She acts like a whore in public and a super freaky slut in private. No honest, loving hard working man wants a tramp on his arm. And to call that tramp his wife, I DONT THINK SO! Tiffany Pollard needs to do some serious soul searching and re-evaluate her attitude and actions. I wish her the best of luck in making the necessary changes to find a man who will accept her. And yes Ma'am I do have a man. He is ALL THAT!

I think that Tango made a big mistake coming to national tv to find love. Tiffany and Chance belong together. They both act crazy. Nobody perfect, but Tango should'nt chase New York and fight for her attentions. If Tango, ever go back to New York , he deserve whatever happens to him. I think New York pick Tango for the wrong reasons. New York really love Chance.

Tango and ny caused part in all this drama, I mean ny dissing his mom isnt right EVER and tango dissind her like that in front of thousands of people after knowing what she has been through was messed up. I think they shoulg apoligize to each other and call it a day, they will both regret not giving each other a chance you never know it might work tango should listen to ny's side of the story, they should talk about and reslove it if they both decide that thier feelings for one another have changed tehn thats fine but if they never talk about it then they will never know and that will carry on with them for the rest of their lives.

"NOBODY TALKS ABOUT MY MOTHER AND GETS AWAY WITH IT" AND THE NEXT BOYTOY TO GET BOOTED WAS ONYX. SO WHAT MAKES HER SO SPECIAL. WHY SHOULD SHE BE ALLOWED TO SPEAK ILL OF TANGO'S MOTHER. I THINK SHE DID PICK THE BEST MAN BUT HER ACTIONS PRIOR TO THE FINALE WERE ALL WRONG. SHE SAID TANGO HAS BAD SKIN AND SHE SAT UP THERE WITH THAT RAGEDY WEAVE AND TOO MUCH MAKE UP.. KARMA GIRL KARMA. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.. BOOMARANG.. I BET THE NEXT TIME THE BIT** HAS SOMETHING TO SAY SHE WILL KEEP IT TO HERSELF. SHE SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER MOTHER TO STOP WEARING ALL OF THE FOUNDATION FROM THE LOREAL LINE BECAUSE IF SHE HAD A BIG CLOCK AROUND HER NECK AND SOME BULL HORNS SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN THE SPLITTING IMAGE OF FLAVORRRR FLAVVVVV.. CIAO PEOPLE..

I believe what happened to Tango and New York on the reunion episode was premeditated. How could anyone on the day of the reunion greeted like everything was fine and then just dropped a bomb shell like he wants out because she disrespected his mother. New York was under the impression that everything between Tango and herself was fine and had plans on moving forward in their relationship. No real man does things like that if anything, he should have spoken to New York and worked out those differences before going on national television and acted like a fool. This behavior proved Tango's action was intentional but it made looked like a low down person. That behavior is not for someone who has class before if you look at New York back ground, she has a Bachelor;s degree and well spoke and educated so you have lost a good thing. I believe believe deep down, New York has a softer side which you pretty much admitted to on the union show.

I don't like New York but what Tango did was totally immature and he's nothing but an asshole. No wonder nobody liked him...

I really did feel sorry for Tango when I watched the show and heard New York talking about his mother. I was so into the show that I watched alot of re-runs up into the reunion; that is where I had to say to myself, "self" and myself said "huh" and I said, did you see that NY did not have on that ring, and did you see her reaction when they announced that she and Tango would be reunited after the break? She was regreting to see him then. When they reunited yes they kissed but then she asked him where he wanted her to sit? Now I think that he may have added alittle more to it that was unexpected. Maybe NY did not realize that he was going to diss her that hard but if you listened to La La she asked NY if she knew he was going to do that and she said no and then she said what is wrong with him. See, we all got taken because they were going to break up, you can tell and plus she made way too much money on the first episode to pass up on another chance, plus it looks like her and her mother spent all of there money on them inflated airbags that they have added so they needed another episode. I am pissed cause I really felt bad for tango so I was surfing the web to see what he was up to and then I came across his website and he has a press release on there dated December 2006 which predicts his world wide exposure from this show, his three (3) tours since the show, some pictures(old)but he was still fly, about 50 hits and a sample of his music. I don't know which one was the REAL Tango but I think that the one that left that stage really over rehearsed his lines. You would have gotten alot further if you had played the "victim" more like you did during the show. Now I say played because there is no way that you could have taken as much you did in that house; only to loose it (Your Sexy) the way that you did on that reunion show.The time to really had losted it was when NY showed her ass during lunch with your mother! If you had been more calmer during the reunion and spoke more aobut why you were breaking off the engagement, rather than concentrating on putting your hood on your head as you walked off the stage. You would have gotten more supporters, validated a very good decision and probably gotten a show that would have topped NY's past and future ventures. Instead you made her the victim AGAIN and SHE WILL BE THE HEAD B@#$H INCHARGE AGAIN! I still wish you the best, if you have a girl, I hope you are happy; if not and you see the Tango that was looking for Tiffany, holla boo...

Tango is a UGLY HOT MESS! If he really loved New York he would have accepted her apology instead of dissing her on national T.V.! He said he wanted to marry her then he takes it back with craters on his face. His rapping carreer is not gonna go to far because he's a phony. On the show he was always being a fake and putting on a front. Now he thinks he's a celebrity. People please stop boosting his confidence because he's corny as hell and from what I see not as mature ass everyone thought he was because if he was he would not had dissed her on T.V. but in private

Can Tango get any uglier that's a face only a mother could love, I agree with Smurf. Tango is a phony, He played it all the way to the end even gave her a ring. Tango you give me a eye sore, I hated looking at your face. Why is it everytime time he was sbout to fight or in a serious argument he looked like he was about buss a rhyme and rapping.

Tango, I was impressed with you throughout the show, and if you had any interest in an older woman, I'd really like to take you out to dinner. You have a lot of style and class, and you are an extremely handsome man. Take care charming brotha....

Are u kidding?! I think anyone who sticks up for a ho'ish, deranged chick who disrespects anyone's mom must be her relative or friend. I don't see the right in that at all! Tango is better looking than NY anyday. There's nothing cosmetically fake about him, everything on her would either melt or fall off in the swimming pool!

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I really enjoyed watching Season 1 of I Love NY! When I saw Tango, my heart fluttered. Oh my GOSH he is so fine! I feel NY was wrong for the outspoken statement concerning his mother. When a man forget his happiness and sticks up for his mother, you have found something special. He treats mom well, you also will be treated well! My heart did go out for NY when he broke everything off! I felt she really didn't realize just how hurt he was.As I look over the interviews Tango did a year ago, i'm wondering did I fall for the wrong guy! Now he is acting as if he never really cared and that's not cool! It's OK to have fallen in love and one's heart gets broken. It's life and eventually his princess will emerge and he indeed will live happily ever after! I'm hoping NY and Tango get pass the fame and mend those broken hearts and find REALNESS! May GOD bless them both!